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July 16th, 2011  

It’s only a tin can

by Val Mullally

It’s a fantastic Irish summer day and everyone seems to be walking along the beach front.
A young family is walking towards me, when suddenly the mother says to the pre-school age boy.
‘Don’t jump on it.’
Her words transform him into a guided missile that locks onto the drink can lying on the pavement.
In a sec. he’s jumped firmly on it, squashing it in the middle.
Frustration in her voice, the mother resorts to sarcasm.
‘Oh great, why don’t you dance on it!’
The boy, of course, complies! Waving his arms, wiggling his bottom as he performs multiple jumps on the can.
So what’s my response as a Parent Coach? ....

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Keywords: anger • boundaries with children • challenging behavior • challenging behaviour • communication • mixed messages • obedient children • overfunctioning • overfunctioning parent • parent contradicts • self esteem • setting limits • supermum • teaching children respect • why negative instructions don't work

June 04th, 2010  

Parent Contradicts

by Val Mullally

Parent Contradicts
What effect does it have on children when they receive conflicting messages?

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Keywords: mixed messages • parent contradicts • Raising Our Children Raising Ourselves • self esteem